Sunday, April 19, 2009

I read an article talking about the views on different sex’s and how they communicate. It basically explained how the divorce rate is raising. Most couples that got a divorce based it on their communication level. Also it pointed out why these communication levels differ so much in gender.
It pointed out in the article that while growing up boys tend to have more of a group type friendship, when girls have only one best friend that they share secrets with and rely on that person when they need a friend. They also explained that with in a time frame the boys would talk about so many different subjects, while in that same time the two girls would talk about one subject.
Then when the girls would talk the listener would always respond with a “yes” or some other response related to that, while boys just sit and listen. This really clarified a lot to me, because in a lot of relationships I always thought that guys never really listened but its just our different subcultures, that sets us apart
I think this is what makes it very misleading for women, because in a relationship we expect someone to be a “best friend” and by that I mean someone who responds like a girl. I think we need to realize that maybe guys are listening to us when we think they aren’t

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

People, situations, things; they all happen for a reason. Our world today has become so kayotic and down the road it seems like it is just getting worse. I have a belief in God, I know that what ever happens is in his hands and he has a plan for us. I think with our world today many people ask if there is a God then were is he in this crisis we are facing in our world today.

It’s a good question, but God doesn’t cause everything in this world. There is a Heaven and a Hell, our sins is what made that Hell. Our world cant be perfect, and when those unperfected situations arise its our trust that we have in God to help us out.

Today, we live in a society that is such a stubborn based culture. That it take a lot for someone to open their eyes and believe in something so big. Its hard to understand that things are the way they are, but I just know everything happens for a reason. The out come of our crises will eventually rise, we just need to be patient and wait.

We went through the great depression and came out of it. It taught us things in life, It happened for a reason. I’m not saying that God causes these things to happen its our sins that do, but I think it’s the faith we have in him that turns it around.